High Quality No

Written by Gede Prama

“You can be a good person and say no at the same time”, that is one of the old messages. Especially in this day and age, without the courage to say no, even many holy souls fall. It sounds impolite to put an example in this case. If we mention names, it’s even less beautiful spiritually.

As material of contemplation, there is low quality of no, there is also high quality of no. If someone is offered drugs for example, then sharing the bad sides of people who sell drugs everywhere with anger and hatred, that’s one example of a low quality no. It is not only dangerous to the person who sells drugs, but also can create danger to the one who shared the story.

It has been happening for years, many women both teenagers and married women, who easily fall in love with men with a slightly mature appearance. This usually happens because they have trouble with their father at home, then look for a figure of father outside. What is called a high quality of no is simple, simply understanding that these women are looking for a role model of father. Then give them body language which is not too close.

Some men have high sexual energy, which is very easily attracted when seeing an attractive women. For women, especially those whose bodies contain an attractive sexual aura, it is important to have sensitive eyes. Seeing the signs of a man with dangerous eyes, move away politely to a safe place.

One of the energies that drives many human souls into the spiritual abyss in this era is the energy of excessive competition. Many souls who enter the dangerous abyss because they want to be called richer, more famous, more widely praised. Fighting this energy is equal with inviting another danger. In order to say high quality no, simply do not follow this dangerous energy. Those who can be reminded, please remind them, those who can not be reminded just share a smile with them.

The experience of sharing the light in prisons shared a story, there are some officials and honorable people who are prisoned there. Never use this data to attack people, just use it as an input. Being an official is not easy, having a huge amount of money and power does not always make the soul more beautiful. At the end, learn to maintain a balance between desire and ability.

Friends who have spent long enough in the spiritual world understand. Not all outside symbols of being holy are truly holy inside. Many of them are very disappointing. Once you encounter such a disappointing experience, there is no need to change religion, no need to criticize religious institutions, simply be a candle of light in your respective environments. At least do not extend the long list of long-standing violence.

Summarized into one, many energies in nature are not worth following. But always keep in the heart, excessive resistance will not only worsen the situation, but also be prone to make someone jump into the abyss. Examples and proofs are too much in this case.

In order to have a high-quality no, at the same time sharing the smell of perfumes, just concentrate energy to make yourself calm and balanced. As a practical step, as simple as the rubbish and the beautiful flowers that are constantly flowing, bad-good, sad-glad, wrong-right keep flowing.

Quoting from energy researchers in the West, surrender is an energy that makes spiritual energy touch the earth. Once a person completely surrenders, they have a much higher energy vibration than the energy that dominantly controls the earth. At this level of surrender, not only the word no has high quality, but one also shares the perfume of beauty here on earth.

Author: Guruji Gede Prama.
Proofread By: Kirsty Spence.

About the author

Gede Prama

Gede Prama started his spiritual journey through a dialogue with his symbolic Guru in a village at the north of Bali. The journey is then being enriched with his experiences of studying abroad, his meetings with the world greatest spiritual Gurus: His Holiness Dalai Lama, The Venerable Thich Nhat Hanh, as well as Professor Karen Armstrong; and also being deepened by his intense meditation practices.

Despite the fact that he was once a CEO of a large corporation with thousand of employees, and was traveling abroad frequently for the purpose of teaching, yet, being deeply moved by the Bali bombing incident in 2002, he then decided to leave everything and went back to his home island.
He has never leave Bali for the past few years. In fact, he rarely leaves the silence of the forest where he lives, except for the purpose of teaching at the sacred sites within Bali.

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