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Guruji’s Wife celebrates her 61st birthday today 28/8 2023

“The meaning of life is to find your gift, the purpose of life is to give your gift”, Pablo Picasso

Today Guruji’s wife (Ibu Suci) is celebrating her 61st birthday. She spent 45 years of her life accompanying Guruji (5 years dating, 40 years married).

An achievement that is worth celebrating.  For that reason, a deep thank you to my family and all close friends.  Especially the Puri Sukasada Buleleng family where Ibu was born.

The Tajun family where Guruji grew up.  As well as the Compassion spiritual family.  Everything plays a big role in making Ibu healthy and happy at a no longer young age.

Even though Ibu only graduated from high school, it was clear that she had found “the unique gift” in her life.  And being one with this unique blessing.

Ibu unique blessing is simple, everyday is always happy.  It’s like understanding what the Upanishads wrote: “At the beginning, it was joy. In the end, it will be joy. In the middle, nothing else except joy.”

Life as a song of joy is not only integrated into Ibu’s life, but also shared with close people.  Especially her children and grandchildren.

When Wika and Adi (first daughter, second son) were still very young, in the family there were often comments like this: “Your children have a very different light.”

It all happened because Ibu never told her children about difficulties. Despite moving from one rented house to another rented house.

From one city to another.  Even once being so poor in the foreign land.  While in England, many wives of Indonesian and Malaysian students complained that they did not feel at home.

But Ibu goes out every day to enjoy life.  After her husband left for college, the two children went to school. Ibu really enjoyed life in England.

Often enter luxury boutique stores, just to try on beautiful clothes that are expensive.  Only trying of course, because can, because she has no money.

To please herself, Ibu buys second hand clothes that cost between 1 and 2 pounds. Arriving at home, proudly showing off her new clothes.

What’s more, after living in Jakarta, Ibu is again filling her daily life with joy.  Now in old age, again that joy cannot be stolen by old age.

As justifying Picasso’s legacy at the start: “The meaning of life is in discovering your unique gift. The purpose of life is in sharing it with others.”

This morning, while sunbathing, Ibu advised: “The older you are, the less you should use your brain. The more you use your heart.”

As you understand, one of the beautiful spaces in the heart (note: Mother’s full name is IGA Suciati) is called a joyful heart.  A heart full of joy.  The prayer is only thank you, the wealth is only gratitude.

Photo: Mother with Guruji at several holiday spots in Bali
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About the author

H.H. Guruji Gede Prama

Rewriting Human History from Bali:
A Living Story of How an Island of Tragedy Blossomed into a Global Fountain of Harmony

Sometimes history is written in books.
Sometimes it is written quietly in the courage of human hearts.

In Bali, the transformation from tragedy to harmony is not merely an idea preserved in ancient scriptures. It is a lived realityβ€”something that has unfolded, step by step, in our own time.

One of the subtle threads guiding this journey may be understood through what is often described as global synchronicity.

The devastating terrorist attack of 9/11/2001 in the United States shook the world with waves of violence and fear.

The following year, tragedy struck again on 10/12/2002 in Bali.

The sequence of date, month, and year appears as if gently moving forward by one. For some, this is coincidence. For others, it is the whisper of the One, it may be read as a quiet reminder from the deeper intelligence of lifeβ€”that humanity is repeatedly invited to choose how it responds to suffering: "Whether to extend cycles of violence, or to transform tragedy into seed of harmony".

Over time, Bali gradually chose the second path.

From an island once marked by tragedy, Bali evolved into a global space of dialogue, hospitality, and cultural harmony. International gatherings and global summits later took place here, including the G20 Bali Summit 2022β€”a reflection of the island’s role as a meeting point for the world.

Within this wider transformation, many individuals quietly dedicated their lives to healing the invisible wounds left by tragedy.

One of them is Guruji Gede Prama.
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Guruji Gede Prama
Indonesian Peace Servant, Author, Former Corporate Executive and Consultant

I. Early Life, Education, and Formation

Guruji Gede Prama was born in Bali, Indonesia. From adolescence, he demonstrated strong literary and intellectual inclinations, contributing articles to national publications and gradually shaping a reflective voice on life, leadership, and human values.

After completing his undergraduate degree at Udayana University in Bali and an MBA degree from Prasetiya Mulya University Jakarta, he received a scholarship to pursue postgraduate studies in Lancaster, United Kingdom. In 1993, he attended executive top management studies at INSEAD in France.

These academic exposures broadened his understanding of leadership beyond technical managementβ€”toward responsibility for human dignity and social wellbeing.

By his thirties, he had achieved what many aspire to:
β€’ A successful CEO of two major corporations
β€’ A widely published author
β€’ A nationally recognised leadership consultant

He was featured in major Indonesian media outlets including Kompas, Tempo, Media Indonesia, Metro TV, ANTV, Bali TV, Swasembada, Warta Ekonomi, Infobank, Bali Post, Nusa, and others.

II. Corporate Formation and Ethical Influence

After graduating from university, Guruji began his career at Matsushita Electric in Jakarta.
There he encountered the philosophy of founder Konosuke Matsushita, who emphasised that the essence of enterprise lies in the formation of human character. His guiding principleβ€”β€œBefore making a product, make a person”—deeply shaped the young Guruji.

By the age of 39, he had achieved professional stability, financial security, and public recognition.
Yet life quietly invited him toward a different path.

III. Literary Journey and Inner Transformation

Along the long pilgrimage of his inner life, Guruji was guided not only by the wisdom of thousands of books, nor only by the hidden teachers that appeared in moments of difficulty and uncertainty.

Life itself slowly opened sacred doors.

Among these were gentle encounters with some of the luminous spiritual voices of our ageβ€”His Holiness the Dalai Lama in the quiet hills of Dharamsala in 2008, the serene presence of Zen master Thich Nhat Hanh in Jakarta, and a personal conversation with Professor Karen Armstrong in Jakarta.

These meetings were not merely exchanges of words, but moments that felt quietly inscribed by destinyβ€”brief openings where compassion, silence, and understanding touched the heart.

Since the 1990s, Guruji has authored more than one hundred books through major Indonesian publishers including Gramedia, Elex Media, Karaniya, and Paramita.

At first he wrote books.
Over time, the books reshaped his life.

Writing became a path inwardβ€”a practice of listening to the deeper silence within.

When the 2002 Bali bombings occurred, he made a decisive transition: "Leaving the light of success of corporate life in Jakarta to serve a deeply dark wounded community in Bali".

Since 2002, his teachingsβ€”both offline and onlineβ€”are estimated to have reached millions of individuals seeking healing and harmony.

IV. Prison Service

For approximately seven consecutive years, Guruji conducted regular teaching and counselling sessions across prisons in Bali’s eight districts and some other places in Indonesia.

Estimated outreach:

β€’ More than 7,000 inmates in Bali
β€’ Approximately 1,000 additional inmates in Bandung and Tangerang

His work included engagement with individuals convicted of terrorism-related offences.

This service was formally acknowledged in a nomination letter written by the Indonesian Minister of Law in support of his 2026 Nobel Peace Prize nomination.

V. Interfaith Reconciliation

Guruji’s work extended across diverse religious communities in Bali and Indonesia.

He delivered reconciliation dialogues in:

β€’ Muslim majlis taqlim gatherings
β€’ Christian and Chatolic churches
β€’ Buddhist temples
β€’ Hindu temples

This contribution to interfaith trust-building was recognised in a nomination letter from the Indonesian Minister of Religious Affairs in 2026. In support of his 2026 Nobel Peace Prize nomination.

VI. Ecological Stewardship

Understanding the deep connection between healing people and healing nature, Guruji personally bought and financed the preservation of approximately 9 hectares of forest and sacred temple land in North Bali.

These lands protect biodiversity while preserving spiritual landscapes that have long nourished Balinese culture.

Through this quiet commitment, Guruji demonstrates that peace is not only a matter of human relationships, but also of harmony between humanity and the living earth.

This contribution received a meaningful affirmation when the Indonesian Minister of Environment wrote a special nomination letter in 2025, recognising his ecological stewardship and nominating him for the Nobel Peace Prize, affirming that caring for the earth is inseparable from cultivating lasting peace for humanity.

VII. Educational and Civic Engagement

Guruji has delivered talks, counselling sessions, and leadership programmes in collaboration with universities, senior high schools, kindergartens, government institutions, correctional facilities, and religious communities across Bali and beyond.

These engagements aim to cultivate emotional maturity, ethical awareness, and peaceful coexistence across generations.

VIII. Institutional Support (2026)

As of January 2026, more than 300 ministers, rectors, deans, directors, and professors from Indonesia and several other countries have submitted nomination letters supporting Guruji Gede Prama for consideration for the Nobel Peace Prize.

Among the nominators are distinguished leaders, including:

β€’ Chairman of the Honorary Council of the Indonesian Constitutional Court
β€’ Indonesian Minister of Law
β€’ Indonesian Minister of Religious Affairs
β€’ Indonesian Minister of Environment

Academic leadership also forms a major part of this support:

β€’ Rectors from major universities across Bali, Java, Papua, Sumatera, and other regions of Indonesia
β€’ Professors and academic leaders from Indonesia, India, Australia, Malaysia, the Philippines, and beyond

Together, these voices reflect broad recognition across legal, governmental, and academic communities of Guruji’s long-term contribution to healing, reconciliation, and harmony.

IX. The Trophy That Never Lies

Many stories of success end with declining health or fractured families.

Guruji’s life offers a different narrative.

At age 63, he has never undergone major surgery, remains married to the same spouse for more than 43 years, and is blessed with three children and five grandchildren.

Beyond his biological family, he is supported by a second familyβ€”a spiritual community rooted in compassion and service, including individuals who have transformed their lives after experiences of hardship, addiction, or imprisonment.
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Conclusion:
From Darkness of tragedy into Global Fountain of Harmony

In 2002, Guruji left the visible light of success as a CEO, author, and consultant in Jakarta.

He chosed instead to step into the darkness uncertainty of Bali’s tragedy.

For more than two decades, he has walked quietly beside those who sufferβ€”prisoners, seekers, broken families, and communities learning again how to trust.

Today, Bali stands not only as a place of beauty, but as a living reminder that tragedy can be transformed into a global garden of harmony.

Within this transformation, Guruji Gede Prama has played a humble yet meaningful roleβ€”helping to nurture the journey from suffering toward ultimate healing.

A quiet contribution, perhaps, to the long and unfinished work of rewriting human history from Bali.

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