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The Lights of Hugging

“The souls who are rarely touched and hugged”, that’s the dominant feature of many restless and angry souls. They are not only less touched by the arms, they are also less touched by the touching actions like kindness, sincerity and honesty.

Parents who are too busy to earn a living, the school which is full of problems, leaders who are care only for their interest have created psychological and spiritual environment which make life like dry season here and there. That is the reason why there are dry souls everywhere who are thirsty of attention and compassion.
And the dry season of life is not a moment to burn a fire by producing a lot of anger, but rather an invitation to sprinkle the holy water of hugging, acceptance and compassion as much as possible.

Not many people who are blessed to be as famous as Mother Teresa, not many people who are blessed to be as bright as Nelson Mandela, or as humble as Mahatma Gandhi, but all people bring the small candles in the heart, which is ready to be kindled anytime and anywhere.

Therefore, no matter how small our candle is, let’s begin to turn the candle in a place where there is less wind. And to be honest, that place is family. Mainly because family is a social environment where we know each others deeply.

Being illuminated by the light of inspiration like this, it is worthy to contemplate again and again to take good care of the family like taking good care of the garden. It is similar to remove the weeds in the garden. You may remove the weeds today, but on the other day the weeds appear again and again.

The naughty children, the imperfect spouse, the angry parents are like weeds. Although you keep reminding the members of family, but those imperfections appear again and again. However, no matter how bad the weeds of imperfections appear in the family, but never tired to make it better from time to time.

Some people complain of being tired, some others are really angry, but there is no other option except continuously touch the family members using the hands of acceptance, forgiveness and compassion.

Unlike the pharmaceutical drugs which cure only the treated, the last approach of healing heal both the treated and the healers. The more sincere you touch and hug the others, the more you spread the vibrations of healing and peace everywhere.

In a simple but profound language, it is not how big your actions, but rather how much sincerity that you put in your actions. To make it more concrete: “if you want to be loved by the children, love their mother. If you want to be respected by the children, respect their father”. In this way, you are not only sending more light to the future, but you also send more light the darkness within.

Author: Gede Prama.
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About the author

H.H. Guruji Gede Prama

Rewriting Human History from Bali:
A Living Story of How an Island of Tragedy Blossomed into a Global Fountain of Harmony

Sometimes history is written in books.
Sometimes it is written quietly in the courage of human hearts.

In Bali, the transformation from tragedy to harmony is not merely an idea preserved in ancient scriptures. It is a lived realityβ€”something that has unfolded, step by step, in our own time.

One of the subtle threads guiding this journey may be understood through what is often described as global synchronicity.

The devastating terrorist attack of 9/11/2001 in the United States shook the world with waves of violence and fear.

The following year, tragedy struck again on 10/12/2002 in Bali.

The sequence of date, month, and year appears as if gently moving forward by one. For some, this is coincidence. For others, it is the whisper of the One, it may be read as a quiet reminder from the deeper intelligence of lifeβ€”that humanity is repeatedly invited to choose how it responds to suffering: "Whether to extend cycles of violence, or to transform tragedy into seed of harmony".

Over time, Bali gradually chose the second path.

From an island once marked by tragedy, Bali evolved into a global space of dialogue, hospitality, and cultural harmony. International gatherings and global summits later took place here, including the G20 Bali Summit 2022β€”a reflection of the island’s role as a meeting point for the world.

Within this wider transformation, many individuals quietly dedicated their lives to healing the invisible wounds left by tragedy.

One of them is Guruji Gede Prama.
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Guruji Gede Prama
Indonesian Peace Servant, Author, Former Corporate Executive and Consultant

I. Early Life, Education, and Formation

Guruji Gede Prama was born in Bali, Indonesia. From adolescence, he demonstrated strong literary and intellectual inclinations, contributing articles to national publications and gradually shaping a reflective voice on life, leadership, and human values.

After completing his undergraduate degree at Udayana University in Bali and an MBA degree from Prasetiya Mulya University Jakarta, he received a scholarship to pursue postgraduate studies in Lancaster, United Kingdom. In 1993, he attended executive top management studies at INSEAD in France.

These academic exposures broadened his understanding of leadership beyond technical managementβ€”toward responsibility for human dignity and social wellbeing.

By his thirties, he had achieved what many aspire to:
β€’ A successful CEO of two major corporations
β€’ A widely published author
β€’ A nationally recognised leadership consultant

He was featured in major Indonesian media outlets including Kompas, Tempo, Media Indonesia, Metro TV, ANTV, Bali TV, Swasembada, Warta Ekonomi, Infobank, Bali Post, Nusa, and others.

II. Corporate Formation and Ethical Influence

After graduating from university, Guruji began his career at Matsushita Electric in Jakarta.
There he encountered the philosophy of founder Konosuke Matsushita, who emphasised that the essence of enterprise lies in the formation of human character. His guiding principleβ€”β€œBefore making a product, make a person”—deeply shaped the young Guruji.

By the age of 39, he had achieved professional stability, financial security, and public recognition.
Yet life quietly invited him toward a different path.

III. Literary Journey and Inner Transformation

Along the long pilgrimage of his inner life, Guruji was guided not only by the wisdom of thousands of books, nor only by the hidden teachers that appeared in moments of difficulty and uncertainty.

Life itself slowly opened sacred doors.

Among these were gentle encounters with some of the luminous spiritual voices of our ageβ€”His Holiness the Dalai Lama in the quiet hills of Dharamsala in 2008, the serene presence of Zen master Thich Nhat Hanh in Jakarta, and a personal conversation with Professor Karen Armstrong in Jakarta.

These meetings were not merely exchanges of words, but moments that felt quietly inscribed by destinyβ€”brief openings where compassion, silence, and understanding touched the heart.

Since the 1990s, Guruji has authored more than one hundred books through major Indonesian publishers including Gramedia, Elex Media, Karaniya, and Paramita.

At first he wrote books.
Over time, the books reshaped his life.

Writing became a path inwardβ€”a practice of listening to the deeper silence within.

When the 2002 Bali bombings occurred, he made a decisive transition: "Leaving the light of success of corporate life in Jakarta to serve a deeply dark wounded community in Bali".

Since 2002, his teachingsβ€”both offline and onlineβ€”are estimated to have reached millions of individuals seeking healing and harmony.

IV. Prison Service

For approximately seven consecutive years, Guruji conducted regular teaching and counselling sessions across prisons in Bali’s eight districts and some other places in Indonesia.

Estimated outreach:

β€’ More than 7,000 inmates in Bali
β€’ Approximately 1,000 additional inmates in Bandung and Tangerang

His work included engagement with individuals convicted of terrorism-related offences.

This service was formally acknowledged in a nomination letter written by the Indonesian Minister of Law in support of his 2026 Nobel Peace Prize nomination.

V. Interfaith Reconciliation

Guruji’s work extended across diverse religious communities in Bali and Indonesia.

He delivered reconciliation dialogues in:

β€’ Muslim majlis taqlim gatherings
β€’ Christian and Chatolic churches
β€’ Buddhist temples
β€’ Hindu temples

This contribution to interfaith trust-building was recognised in a nomination letter from the Indonesian Minister of Religious Affairs in 2026. In support of his 2026 Nobel Peace Prize nomination.

VI. Ecological Stewardship

Understanding the deep connection between healing people and healing nature, Guruji personally bought and financed the preservation of approximately 9 hectares of forest and sacred temple land in North Bali.

These lands protect biodiversity while preserving spiritual landscapes that have long nourished Balinese culture.

Through this quiet commitment, Guruji demonstrates that peace is not only a matter of human relationships, but also of harmony between humanity and the living earth.

This contribution received a meaningful affirmation when the Indonesian Minister of Environment wrote a special nomination letter in 2025, recognising his ecological stewardship and nominating him for the Nobel Peace Prize, affirming that caring for the earth is inseparable from cultivating lasting peace for humanity.

VII. Educational and Civic Engagement

Guruji has delivered talks, counselling sessions, and leadership programmes in collaboration with universities, senior high schools, kindergartens, government institutions, correctional facilities, and religious communities across Bali and beyond.

These engagements aim to cultivate emotional maturity, ethical awareness, and peaceful coexistence across generations.

VIII. Institutional Support (2026)

As of January 2026, more than 300 ministers, rectors, deans, directors, and professors from Indonesia and several other countries have submitted nomination letters supporting Guruji Gede Prama for consideration for the Nobel Peace Prize.

Among the nominators are distinguished leaders, including:

β€’ Chairman of the Honorary Council of the Indonesian Constitutional Court
β€’ Indonesian Minister of Law
β€’ Indonesian Minister of Religious Affairs
β€’ Indonesian Minister of Environment

Academic leadership also forms a major part of this support:

β€’ Rectors from major universities across Bali, Java, Papua, Sumatera, and other regions of Indonesia
β€’ Professors and academic leaders from Indonesia, India, Australia, Malaysia, the Philippines, and beyond

Together, these voices reflect broad recognition across legal, governmental, and academic communities of Guruji’s long-term contribution to healing, reconciliation, and harmony.

IX. The Trophy That Never Lies

Many stories of success end with declining health or fractured families.

Guruji’s life offers a different narrative.

At age 63, he has never undergone major surgery, remains married to the same spouse for more than 43 years, and is blessed with three children and five grandchildren.

Beyond his biological family, he is supported by a second familyβ€”a spiritual community rooted in compassion and service, including individuals who have transformed their lives after experiences of hardship, addiction, or imprisonment.
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Conclusion:
From Darkness of tragedy into Global Fountain of Harmony

In 2002, Guruji left the visible light of success as a CEO, author, and consultant in Jakarta.

He chosed instead to step into the darkness uncertainty of Bali’s tragedy.

For more than two decades, he has walked quietly beside those who sufferβ€”prisoners, seekers, broken families, and communities learning again how to trust.

Today, Bali stands not only as a place of beauty, but as a living reminder that tragedy can be transformed into a global garden of harmony.

Within this transformation, Guruji Gede Prama has played a humble yet meaningful roleβ€”helping to nurture the journey from suffering toward ultimate healing.

A quiet contribution, perhaps, to the long and unfinished work of rewriting human history from Bali.

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