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The True Home

The author of The Compassionate Mind Paul Gilbert Ph.D. wrote, after meeting a lot of people in psychotherapy sessions for more than thirty years, he concluded that there is one trait of people who are mentally ill, at the same time also never found home, it is the inability to be kind, warm, love to life.

The author of The Compassionate Mind Paul Gilbert Ph.D. wrote, after meeting a lot of people in psychotherapy sessions for more than thirty years, he concluded that there is one trait of people who are mentally ill, at the same time also never found home, it is the inability to be kind, warm, love to life.

Alienated In The Body
All places appear to be wrong. All events appear to be disaster. That is the characteristic of person who never find home. When closely studied, initially these person grew up in a very competitive environment. The habit to imitate then make them truly competitive. At home, at school, at work, on the road, they keep competing.

As a result of imitating others, this type of people then become someone else. The situation is similar to humans who live in other’s house, they are certainly not feel at home. That’s why they feel so alienated in their body, mind and soul. The dangerous things happen, when they run into drugs, free sex, smoking and the like. It might be saved, if they run into deep spiritual practices, then dig themselves deeper and deeper.

It is only a possibility, because even in the spiritual world there are dangerous things such as fake teachers, fake teaching, fake spiritual group. Learning from psychologist Carl Rogers, the one who know ourselves such deep is ourselves. Similar to going to medical doctor, the doctor’s time to read our medical records, listen to our medical complaints mostly less than one hour. While we grow together with our body, mind, soul during our lifetime.

The Gift of Pain
Almost everyone – include the holy people – reminded to return back home through pain and suffering. Once a person lives too far from home, then he/she will be called through a series of calamities. Brandom Bays in her book The Journey wrote such clearly about this. Initially she was attacked by a basketball-sized tumor, then her house was burned, she was nearly bankrupt financially, until the family was broken by divorce.

In the language psychologist Carl G. Jung, all spiritual awakening is preceded by the dark nights of soul. That’s why there is a book titled “Pain, The Gift that No Body Want”. Suffering is blessing that is thrown away by everyone. Anyone who is sincere, diligent, honest in the front of tragedy – as Brandom Bays – he/she does not only survived, but also finding the brighter life. In some cases, it is not impossible that a person can attain enlightenment after this.

When the life of saints can be used as a reference, then the life of Mother Teresa, Mahatma Gandhi, Nelson Mandela, HH the Dalai Lama, all told a similar story. The door is opened by pain and suffering. In the front of this long suffering, the holy are diligent, honest, sincere. Sincerity, perseverance, honesty are never lie. They always bring people to the light at the end of tunnel.

The Art of Witnessing
Borrowing from an old teaching of American Indian tribes, within us there are two wolves that keep fighting. Good against bad, the sacred fight against the dirty. The one that wins is of course wolf that is fed every day. For that reason, many holy people feed only the good wolf through kind thoughts, kind speech, kind deed.

However, the journey back home is different. It does not choose good against bad, but learning to keep witnessing. Happiness is like sunrise, sadness is like sunset. But keep in the heart, both are the same sun. Success is high wave, failure is low wave. Always remember, you’re not wave, you are the infinite ocean.

In other words, the journey back home is often referred as the fourth. It is not the left, it is not the right, it is not the center. It is not sadness, it is not happiness, it is not neutral. It keeps witnessing all the time. Anyone who spent long time witnessing understand, by witnessing the soul will certainly go back home. It is as natural as the ocean which is blue, the hill which is naturally green, to one who is home soul is naturally warm, kind and full of love. While the ordinaries struggle to be kind and full of love, to the one who is home, kindness, love, compassion are as natural as water which is wet, as natural as sugar which is sweet. Welcome home beautiful souls.

About the author

H.H. Guruji Gede Prama

Rewriting Human History from Bali:
A Living Story of How an Island of Tragedy Blossomed into a Global Fountain of Harmony

Sometimes history is written in books.
Sometimes it is written quietly in the courage of human hearts.

In Bali, the transformation from tragedy to harmony is not merely an idea preserved in ancient scriptures. It is a lived realityβ€”something that has unfolded, step by step, in our own time.

One of the subtle threads guiding this journey may be understood through what is often described as global synchronicity.

The devastating terrorist attack of 9/11/2001 in the United States shook the world with waves of violence and fear.

The following year, tragedy struck again on 10/12/2002 in Bali.

The sequence of date, month, and year appears as if gently moving forward by one. For some, this is coincidence. For others, it is the whisper of the One, it may be read as a quiet reminder from the deeper intelligence of lifeβ€”that humanity is repeatedly invited to choose how it responds to suffering: "Whether to extend cycles of violence, or to transform tragedy into seed of harmony".

Over time, Bali gradually chose the second path.

From an island once marked by tragedy, Bali evolved into a global space of dialogue, hospitality, and cultural harmony. International gatherings and global summits later took place here, including the G20 Bali Summit 2022β€”a reflection of the island’s role as a meeting point for the world.

Within this wider transformation, many individuals quietly dedicated their lives to healing the invisible wounds left by tragedy.

One of them is Guruji Gede Prama.
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Guruji Gede Prama
Indonesian Peace Servant, Author, Former Corporate Executive and Consultant

I. Early Life, Education, and Formation

Guruji Gede Prama was born in Bali, Indonesia. From adolescence, he demonstrated strong literary and intellectual inclinations, contributing articles to national publications and gradually shaping a reflective voice on life, leadership, and human values.

After completing his undergraduate degree at Udayana University in Bali and an MBA degree from Prasetiya Mulya University Jakarta, he received a scholarship to pursue postgraduate studies in Lancaster, United Kingdom. In 1993, he attended executive top management studies at INSEAD in France.

These academic exposures broadened his understanding of leadership beyond technical managementβ€”toward responsibility for human dignity and social wellbeing.

By his thirties, he had achieved what many aspire to:
β€’ A successful CEO of two major corporations
β€’ A widely published author
β€’ A nationally recognised leadership consultant

He was featured in major Indonesian media outlets including Kompas, Tempo, Media Indonesia, Metro TV, ANTV, Bali TV, Swasembada, Warta Ekonomi, Infobank, Bali Post, Nusa, and others.

II. Corporate Formation and Ethical Influence

After graduating from university, Guruji began his career at Matsushita Electric in Jakarta.
There he encountered the philosophy of founder Konosuke Matsushita, who emphasised that the essence of enterprise lies in the formation of human character. His guiding principleβ€”β€œBefore making a product, make a person”—deeply shaped the young Guruji.

By the age of 39, he had achieved professional stability, financial security, and public recognition.
Yet life quietly invited him toward a different path.

III. Literary Journey and Inner Transformation

Along the long pilgrimage of his inner life, Guruji was guided not only by the wisdom of thousands of books, nor only by the hidden teachers that appeared in moments of difficulty and uncertainty.

Life itself slowly opened sacred doors.

Among these were gentle encounters with some of the luminous spiritual voices of our ageβ€”His Holiness the Dalai Lama in the quiet hills of Dharamsala in 2008, the serene presence of Zen master Thich Nhat Hanh in Jakarta, and a personal conversation with Professor Karen Armstrong in Jakarta.

These meetings were not merely exchanges of words, but moments that felt quietly inscribed by destinyβ€”brief openings where compassion, silence, and understanding touched the heart.

Since the 1990s, Guruji has authored more than one hundred books through major Indonesian publishers including Gramedia, Elex Media, Karaniya, and Paramita.

At first he wrote books.
Over time, the books reshaped his life.

Writing became a path inwardβ€”a practice of listening to the deeper silence within.

When the 2002 Bali bombings occurred, he made a decisive transition: "Leaving the light of success of corporate life in Jakarta to serve a deeply dark wounded community in Bali".

Since 2002, his teachingsβ€”both offline and onlineβ€”are estimated to have reached millions of individuals seeking healing and harmony.

IV. Prison Service

For approximately seven consecutive years, Guruji conducted regular teaching and counselling sessions across prisons in Bali’s eight districts and some other places in Indonesia.

Estimated outreach:

β€’ More than 7,000 inmates in Bali
β€’ Approximately 1,000 additional inmates in Bandung and Tangerang

His work included engagement with individuals convicted of terrorism-related offences.

This service was formally acknowledged in a nomination letter written by the Indonesian Minister of Law in support of his 2026 Nobel Peace Prize nomination.

V. Interfaith Reconciliation

Guruji’s work extended across diverse religious communities in Bali and Indonesia.

He delivered reconciliation dialogues in:

β€’ Muslim majlis taqlim gatherings
β€’ Christian and Chatolic churches
β€’ Buddhist temples
β€’ Hindu temples

This contribution to interfaith trust-building was recognised in a nomination letter from the Indonesian Minister of Religious Affairs in 2026. In support of his 2026 Nobel Peace Prize nomination.

VI. Ecological Stewardship

Understanding the deep connection between healing people and healing nature, Guruji personally bought and financed the preservation of approximately 9 hectares of forest and sacred temple land in North Bali.

These lands protect biodiversity while preserving spiritual landscapes that have long nourished Balinese culture.

Through this quiet commitment, Guruji demonstrates that peace is not only a matter of human relationships, but also of harmony between humanity and the living earth.

This contribution received a meaningful affirmation when the Indonesian Minister of Environment wrote a special nomination letter in 2025, recognising his ecological stewardship and nominating him for the Nobel Peace Prize, affirming that caring for the earth is inseparable from cultivating lasting peace for humanity.

VII. Educational and Civic Engagement

Guruji has delivered talks, counselling sessions, and leadership programmes in collaboration with universities, senior high schools, kindergartens, government institutions, correctional facilities, and religious communities across Bali and beyond.

These engagements aim to cultivate emotional maturity, ethical awareness, and peaceful coexistence across generations.

VIII. Institutional Support (2026)

As of January 2026, more than 300 ministers, rectors, deans, directors, and professors from Indonesia and several other countries have submitted nomination letters supporting Guruji Gede Prama for consideration for the Nobel Peace Prize.

Among the nominators are distinguished leaders, including:

β€’ Chairman of the Honorary Council of the Indonesian Constitutional Court
β€’ Indonesian Minister of Law
β€’ Indonesian Minister of Religious Affairs
β€’ Indonesian Minister of Environment

Academic leadership also forms a major part of this support:

β€’ Rectors from major universities across Bali, Java, Papua, Sumatera, and other regions of Indonesia
β€’ Professors and academic leaders from Indonesia, India, Australia, Malaysia, the Philippines, and beyond

Together, these voices reflect broad recognition across legal, governmental, and academic communities of Guruji’s long-term contribution to healing, reconciliation, and harmony.

IX. The Trophy That Never Lies

Many stories of success end with declining health or fractured families.

Guruji’s life offers a different narrative.

At age 63, he has never undergone major surgery, remains married to the same spouse for more than 43 years, and is blessed with three children and five grandchildren.

Beyond his biological family, he is supported by a second familyβ€”a spiritual community rooted in compassion and service, including individuals who have transformed their lives after experiences of hardship, addiction, or imprisonment.
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Conclusion:
From Darkness of tragedy into Global Fountain of Harmony

In 2002, Guruji left the visible light of success as a CEO, author, and consultant in Jakarta.

He chosed instead to step into the darkness uncertainty of Bali’s tragedy.

For more than two decades, he has walked quietly beside those who sufferβ€”prisoners, seekers, broken families, and communities learning again how to trust.

Today, Bali stands not only as a place of beauty, but as a living reminder that tragedy can be transformed into a global garden of harmony.

Within this transformation, Guruji Gede Prama has played a humble yet meaningful roleβ€”helping to nurture the journey from suffering toward ultimate healing.

A quiet contribution, perhaps, to the long and unfinished work of rewriting human history from Bali.

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